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Q. What are the benefits of using a celebrant rather than a registrar?
A. Rachael Thompson says: Simple! Celebrants will work alongside you to ensure your ceremony lives up to your dreams. There are no restrictions on venue, date, location or time. You can hold your “I dos” where you chose. The venue doesn’t have to be licensed, so that special place may be a beach at sunset, a woodland glade, or even your own garden.
You’ll find that your celebrant will take the time to get to know you as a couple, so that they can create a loving and meaningful ceremony totally reflective of you. There’ll be no standard script, no rules, and no wondering who’s going to turn up on the day to perform your nuptials. You also have the option to include any symbolic rituals, or perhaps you prefer to keep the more traditional elements, it’s completely up to you. What’s more, my ceremonies are dog-friendly so your best buddy doesn’t have to miss out on the fun.
It’s worth noting though, that celebrant-led ceremonies aren’t legally binding, but a quick visit to the registrar to complete the legalities is all that’s necessary.
Q. I've heard about a handfasting ceremony as an alternative to a traditional service but don't know what it entails. Can you tell me more?
A. Claire Bradford says: Handfasting is a beautiful ceremony with roots that go way back in history. It's the origin of the phrase “tying the knot” and symbolises a couple binding their lives together in love. You can opt for a full handfasting ceremony, which includes aspects such as “calling in the quarters,” where your union is blessed with the qualities associated with compass directions. Alternatively, you can choose to incorporate it into any ceremony style you wish.
Some couples opt to have the handfasting cord wrapped around their hands as they say their vows. It's then tied to signify the binding nature of their promises to each other. Others will have guests come up and add ribbons so that they end up with a colourful pompom. There's a wealth of possibilities.
The handfasting cords themselves can be made from football scarves, lengths of family tartan or plaited ribbons to match the day's palette. One couple even knitted their own in the colours of their respective Hogwarts houses! Ask your celebrant how to make your ceremony personal to you.
Q. Can we get married in our own back garden?
A. Patricia Bentley says: You can get married just about anywhere. You need to give notice at your local register office. Everybody has to do this regardless of ceremony plans. Once you've given notice, you will have a simple ceremony at the register office of your choice with two witnesses a few weeks later. You'll sign the register and receive your marriage certificate.
Before you do any of that, I recommend that you talk with a celebrant to arrange for your own personal and meaningful ceremony to take place after the legal ceremony just about anywhere you want, licensed for marriages or not. It can be your favourite pub, forest clearing, beach, hotel, your garden – anywhere. When a celebrant conducts your wedding, it will be just as you want it. Your vows can be traditional or personal; you'll exchange rings and be presented with a certificate. Your day – your way.
Q. How can I make my big day seasonal?
A. Kate & Kate says: We love a winter wedding! Snuggly venues, log fires, greenery, Christmas trees with baubles, fairylights and candles everywhere, mulled wine on arrival to warm everyone up!
Warmth is a must; think velvet, feathers and pashminas, plus a spare pair of outdoor shoes for the photos. Flowergirls and pageboys can have the look of magical little elves, and bridesmaids can look stunning in burgundy or scarlet.
As for the ceremony itself, pop a cracker on every seat to start things off with a bang and, of course, that means a paper hat on every head for full-on festive fun! A Christmas carol or well-known Christmas song sing-a-long really gets the ceremony going – Walking in a Winter Wonderland is one of our favourites.
Stick your vows inside giant husband and wife Christmas cards – so kitsch it's cool – and for the kiss, always have mistletoe at the ready. On exit, forget confetti, it's party poppers all the way! You're going out with a bang!
Kate & Kate
Q. For our summer wedding we've decided to have the legal ceremony before the 'big day' to open up our options of the style of wedding we want.
We're thinking a woodland-inspired al fresco ceremony within a forest, or something similar, led by a celebrant; but where do you start with styling something like that?
A. Sara Ellis says: Embrace the space you have. Firstly choose the location where you will be saying your vows, once you have this, you can start adding the little touches to make it intimate. Consider a focal point for the ceremony, this can be achieved by including an arch, and we especially love a rustic doorway, which could even be used as an entrance to your ceremony. Hay bales are great alternative for customary seating and work well with the woodland theme.
Utilise the outdoor and natural fixtures by hanging ribbons, lanterns or glass tea lights in the trees. Festoon lighting and fairylights can add a magical charm which will carry on to the evening.